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ELEME RICH MEN ARE POOR MENTALLY

1)  When they loot money, they keep is in Switzerland 2)  When they want to enjoy with their family, they travel to USA 3)  when sick, th...

Wednesday 17 February 2016

SURVIVING AN ORDEAL (5)


When life's hard punches come our way, we ought to punch back. Refuse to be defeated. We all have reserved strength hidden within. Tap yours when you are faced with difficulties. Do not despair; do not give up. Find out who you are and mwhat you can do. You must struggle to restore your prestige and dignity. Surpass negative influences; learn to soar above them. We should remind ourselves that we can do anything through Christ, our strength. Critics should be ignored. One ought to set a standard for oneself with regard to what one needs and how one wishes to be treated.                                                                      In other words, we should determine what we can or cannot accept. And once we have so determined, we must maintain a principle that would not allow any one to treat us as less than our preferred ideal. Taking anything less than one's ideal diminishes one's self-esteem and ego. The fact that many people believe that a wrong thing is right does not make it so.we do not have to approve certain life styles because others condone them. It is okay to disagree with the general consensus.                                                                   We have to periodically remind ourselves that we are worthy, and deserve to be treated with respect. In Loving Each Other, Leo Buscaglia stated that we should keep examining the nature of each of our relationships for they are dynamic, not static, and therefore can change for better or worse. He is right; one has to, if one does not want to be taken by surprise.strong self- esteem is vital for facing challenges and taking risks. One should arm oneself with enough of it and then venture into the unknown and explore new opportunities, if one is unsatisfied with prevailing situations.







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